|Trent, Steve, Chrissie and Ryan|
A few days ago our friends lost their son. Though they no longer live in Port Angeles, we feel their loss. He was two weeks from high school graduation and in a car accident. Trent Basden is with Jesus but his family and friends are left here to cope without him.
All who love the Basden family would love to turn back the clock and not let that deer cross the road at that exact moment. Or we want to remove the pain. Or we want to wake up from a bad dream. None of those things are possible. We feel helpless. We can't imagine going through anything like this.
So what are we left with?
I know of two simple things I pray at times like this. Two things that made a HUGE difference whenever Christina was facing difficulty.
The first was this--God promises peace when we tell Him our concerns. (Philippians 4:6-8) That peace is called incomprehensible. It makes no sense. How can we have peace when we are in the middle of death or disease or trauma? Well, that is the miracle that our loving God provides. We had no explanation for the immense peace that came at the most trying times. But it did.
So, I pray that the Basden family will experience incomprehensible peace. It does not take away pain or make the situation easy but it is a gift that only God can provide.
The second thing I pray is for God's presence to be recognized at every turn. Psalm 23:4 says, "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me." Our Shepherd, Jesus, walks with us through the valley of the shadow of death. Death casts a long shadow on this earth. Anyone who has been around for a while has experienced the shadow of death. It is everywhere. There is nothing better than to see God's activity and feel His presence in the midst of the most horrible circumstances. He shines brightly. Our faith increases. And we walk on with Him. Not without pain. Not without loss. But we walk with hope.
And so we pray, Lord, that you will surround this family with your peace that is beyond understanding. And we ask that they will be able to see your hand clearly. We pray that your presence is palpable, that in the midst of struggle and grief, your power and your grace will be seen in unexpected ways. In Jesus' name, AMEN